Sunday, 1 July 2012

Irreconcilable differences divorce

It's the question of everyone's lips right now on the sudden file of divorce by Katie Holmes from Tom Cruise citing irreconcilable differences.

What the heck was that? It lead me on searching the meaning.

Well, I look for a simple explanation from the net as it says,

Irreconcilable differences are differences between the partners in a marriage which make it impossible for their marriage to continue. When marriages start to break down over differences, the spouses are usually encouraged to seek counseling and assistance in an attempt to reconcile, but if this fails, they can petition for divorce on the grounds of irreconcilable differences. 

Not all marriage can have a happing ending.  Love is always sweet in the beginning of marriage but sour in the ending as it can break down over differences reveal only after the marriage.

Do we see it as a case of being a control freak spouse?

Some people wishes to control every aspect of his family member life ,like what his wife or daughter should wear or think. Even if he asked their opinions but at last still stick to his idea.

It might be the case of someone who is having too much confidence, do not like to trust and delegate others or thinking others are less superior than him.

Don't get me wrong it is not only man that do it but also could be your wife annoying habits.

To built on a healthy marriage ,we must have some sort of unwritten rules before marriage on who is the one to decide, take for instance.. .

When comes to making a decision on children matters , the wife will have the last word.-Mum Knows Best? Others crucial matters need the husband to decide or perhaps both should. 

In this way the wife sees she is respected and not always waiting for the husband to decide even for a simple situation.
Katie fear turn into robot

We don't like our lives to be control as Katie put it like a robot or what I call to be a puppet on a string but as an employee you will follow your boss even if you think that he/she is not right but you have no choice but to obey him/her so that you will not be another unemployment list.

Yes Boss at work, at home the least you can say objection,objection....So nice just for a change.


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